Posted by: frankjwalker | April 13, 2017

Blog Post Number 1000

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Yesterday I published post number 1000.

Yea, wow, yippee!!!

OK, enough celebrating.

On to more sharing and getting content out there.

Thank you so much for your support. 

Frank J Walker LMFT

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Posted by: frankjwalker | April 13, 2017

Success in marriage. Above your rights…

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Success in Marriage

People that have success in marriage follow these guidelines and marital habits.

 

  • The Marriage Relationship is above your rights.

    • Where did this my rights, your rights come into the marriage equation?
    • Marriage is a us thing and has always been about the “us”.
    • So many marital difficulties are just little things that turned into big things.
    • Keep things little, by giving up some of your “rights”.
    • However, if abuse, belittlement and pressure is a problem get the help you need and soon.

 

 

Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428

805-395-1155

fjwalker.walker@gmail.com

Frank’s books are available @

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Posted by: frankjwalker | April 12, 2017

Success in Marriage. Speak kindly.

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Success in Marriage

People that have success in marriage follow these guidelines and marital habits.

 

  • Speak kindly.

    • It’s tough in the middle of a debate or argument to think kindly and rationally.
    • But try had to keep things from going downhill.
    • Step away. Cool down. Save it until you can talk rationally.
    • Try!

 

Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428

805-395-1155

fjwalker.walker@gmail.com

Frank’s books are available @

http://www.blurb.com/user/store/frankjwalker

Posted by: frankjwalker | April 11, 2017

Open The Door

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Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428

805-395-1155

fjwalker.walker@gmail.com

Frank’s books are available @

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Posted by: frankjwalker | April 11, 2017

Success in marriage. Forgive quickly.

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Success in marriage

People that have success in marriage follow these guidelines and marital habits.

 

  • Forgive quickly.

    • Don’t hold on to grudges.
    • Don’t keep score.
    • Get to the make-up part as fast as you can.

 

Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428

805-395-1155

fjwalker.walker@gmail.com

Frank’s books are available @

http://www.blurb.com/user/store/frankjwalker

Posted by: frankjwalker | April 10, 2017

Forbidden Fruit Update

 

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Forbidden Fruit for Modern Times.

What’s your forbidden fruit?

What do you have to stay away from?

There is a whole world of stuff you can eat.

Why do you want to eat the stuff that isn’t good for you?

 

Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428

805-395-1155

fjwalker.walker@gmail.com

Frank’s books are available @

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My YouTube channel

Posted by: frankjwalker | April 10, 2017

Diet Original Sin…

 

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Diet the Original Sin

I think the tree of forbidden fruit in the Garden of Eden was a chocolate tree or a French fry tree or a pizza tree.

I know it sounds funny but it is the same issue/problem we as good Christians are facing today in our own management of food and eating in the way God wants.

God told Adam and Eve here is a world of good stuff to eat. Good stuff for your mind and body. “But you can’t eat the bad stuff, the stuff from these two trees”.

God has given us the same world and the same choice. There is a world of good stuff out there for us to eat except from the See’s candy tree or whatever is your forbidden fruit. Some of us even have a forest of forbidden fruits. All of us have the same decision that Adam and Eve had to make. We have to not eat of the forbidden fruit. Whatever the forbidden fruit may be in your life.

We live in a Garden of Eden with all things available to us but not all things worthwhile.

So, the sin is that we think we know better, better even than God.

So, we eat what God doesn’t want us to and then hide from God when He comes around. We cover ourselves not with grape leaves but stretchy pants and baggy clothes.

We hope God doesn’t notice what we really look like when we are naked and ashamed.

But here is the great difference for us. We have a second chance, a third, a fourth and beyond chance. We will not be kicked out of the Garden of Eden.

But the choice is the same we can’t eat the forbidden fruit.

Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428

805-395-1155

fjwalker.walker@gmail.com

Frank’s books are available @

http://www.blurb.com/user/store/frankjwalker

My YouTube channel

 

 

Posted by: frankjwalker | April 9, 2017

Palm Sunday

Palm Sunday

 

… (They) took branches of the palm trees and went out to meet Him and began to shout, “Hosanna! Blessed is He who comes in the name of the Lord…”

John 12:13

 

 

 

Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428

805-395-1155

fjwalker.walker@gmail.com

Frank’s books are available @

http://www.blurb.com/user/store/frankjwalker

 

Posted by: frankjwalker | April 9, 2017

Couples with Great Marriages have…

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Here are Things that Couples in Great Marriages do:

 

  • They decide things together.

Talk together. Plan together. Be on the same page together. In little things and big things plan together.

  • They support each other.

Marriage is all about the “we”.

Remember you are a team.

Yes, you have your individual unique personalities and talents. But that is what makes your marriage.

Support your mate. Encourage each other. When your spouse wins, the team wins and the marriage wins.

The most important “I”, in your marriage is “I love you”.

  • They don’t adhere to stereotypes.

I have talked about this several times.

In a marriage and a family there are no guy things or no girl things.

All jobs and responsibilities in the marriage and home are gender neutral.

  • They take it a step at a time.

    Again understand this; marriage is a marathon not a sprint.

No marriage is perfect and getting close to anything like perfection takes time. It takes a lot of time.

You can’t fix it all at once. So don’t even try.

Take your married life one step at a time.

  • They understand reality.

Reality is nobody is perfect.

Reality is forgiveness works better than grudges.

Reality is two works better than one.

Reality is marriage is work and that work is worth it.

Face reality.

 

Do you have questions about marriage? Let’s talk @

Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428

805-395-1155

fjwalker.walker@gmail.com

Frank’s books are available @

http://www.blurb.com/user/store/frankjwalker

Posted by: frankjwalker | April 8, 2017

The Secret To Marriage

 

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Marriage Secret

 

When you get right down to it, marriage is not about happiness.

Marriage is about two people growing up and becoming better humans.

Nowhere else are we faced with the task of growth more than marriage.

So what’s the secret to making marriage last?

Two people who choose to stay married. That’s it.

 

Resource:The secret to a lasting marriage is written by Corey from: Simple Marriage

 

Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428

805-395-1155

fjwalker.walker@gmail.com

Frank’s books are available @

http://www.blurb.com/user/store/frankjwalker

 

 

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