Posted by: Frank Walker LMFT | April 30, 2016

Lost People…

lost people

Lost people have the tendency to get more Lost.


The problem isn’t that you aren’t trying.

The problem isn’t that you don’t want to get through the stuff your in.

The problem is you are lost and if you stay lost you can get even more “loster”.

People that are lost have the tendency to get more lost.

So what do you do when you are lost? You stop take a breath and ask for directions.

Now I’m a guy and I know that us guys never ask for directions or very rarely. So we are the ones that get lost the most and are really adverse to asking for directions.

But let’s think logically about this. It’s better to ask directions and get to where we are going than to roam around for who knows how long just because we want to be in some kind of “control”.

If your marriage is lost and out of control stop and ask for advice. Get directions from somebody that knows where you want to go and how to get there.

If you have questions, if you don’t have the answers, find someone that can point you in the right way to get those answers.

Don’t stay lost.

Here’s the big problem about being lost. If your lost in one area of your life there is a good possibility that you may be lost in other parts of your life.

Everything is connected, your job, your family, your family and your relationships are all connected. When one part of the connection is lost and can’t get on course the other parts of your life are affected and might lean toward getting lost also.

Feeling lost, out of sorts and not sure where to go or how to get there? Find some help. Call a counselor, pastor or priest. Call someone for directions.

It is not worth the time being lost and trying to find your own way back to a better relationship and marriage.



Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428


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