Posted by: frankjwalker | May 4, 2015

Why you should see a marriage counselor # 4

See a counselor

Why you should see a marriage counselor # 4

 

The choice to go to counseling shouldn’t be forced upon you, however. It needs to be something that both partners agree to do.

Guys have a tough time with counseling.

  • You need to convince them that it is the right way to go.
  • Let them know they won’t be blamed and made the bad guy.
  • Assure them that it won’t take forever.
  • Make sure they will get a plan and a steps to help their marriage.
  • Let them know that counseling is not about “Me” or “You”, but about “Us”.

 

Don’t use therapy as a threat. It should not be the last straw.

 

 

Resource:

DR BARTON GOLDSMITH
http://www.stuff.co.nz/life-style/love-sex/10570358/Why-you-should-see-a-a-marriage-counselor

 

Let’s talk @

Frank J Walker LMFT

1617 Main Street

Cambria, Ca. 93428

559-904-9028

Fjwalker.walker@gmail.com

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